How Do You Balance A Long Relationship?

So....How do you do it?? It's not an easy task, nor a short one. It is a long, winding road of possibilities and decisions and futures. Try dating someone for six years!! Starting off as highschool sweet hearts. Then going to the same college together and eventually moving in. Then, break up for seven months and get back together again for good. Sound familiar? Well, we definitely proved a test of love to each other, it was a hard road, a stressful one and definitely a danger to our health. You see, me and my boyfriend Tony are very proud people, we have pride issues that conflict with each others' past. This is not a good thing but we have worked it out through the test of time, courage, and believing in one another. When you find someone to be with, date first, take your time, there is always time for other important things like moving in together. Just date, spend time together, and create memories before getting serious. Also, make sure you have done what you wanted to do as a single person before getting serious with one another. Cheating, bars every night, and flirting are not something you want to do to one another. It is hurtful, humiliating, and spiteful. Cheating is not in my vocabulary, I would never cheat on my man, it has been done to me before and let me tell, you feel like beating your self up about it. If you don't love the person you are with, then end it. Don't go off and create problems. Be a simple kind of man/woman is what Lynyrd Skynard told us. We have too many complications in our life to be wasting it on vengeance and hate. So, when you find that right person, then do it right! Loving is not easy, be prepared for a long road and listen to one another!

Why Do Women Love Shopping?

Why do we love shopping? Why does anyone for that matter? I will tell you why I am addicted. I am a bargain hunter, I love to bargain shop and find things that no one else will find. Items that are not sold in every store make you unique. When I shop, I don't just buy the first thing I like, because I know when I walk into another store, it will be there for half that price. My fav bargain stores are Ross Dress For Less and The Rugged Warehouse. Man! You can find some pretty awesome stuff for like up to $7.00. The only thing that I buy expensive is purses. There is nothing like the feeling of having a good quality expensive purse to carry. It just makes the entire outfit. I don't know why I am like that, but I am :). Also, good makeup is an expensive thing but you have to get matched if you are going to work in the corporate world. Before I started working for Estee Lauder, I hated expensive makeup, it was just entirely too much when everything you needed was at Loreal at Wal-greens. Well, I was wrong. Getting your natural shade of makeup matched to your skintone makes you look more professional and more natural and better. I have many ideas different for every shopping need. When I need to get out of the house, I do a little shopping at small stores other than the mall. Makes me feel better too if I have had a rough day. There is something about spending money versus leaving it in your bank account....well I'm not sure. Anyone like me? Please let me know I would love to hear from you!

Ever Been Up Late @ Nite, and CAN'T SLEEP??

Ahhh, I have this problem almost every nite. I take a nap during the day and can't seem to sleep. So here I sit, online looking for something to do while the man I love is asleep, ahh. I think I have too much energy sometimes. I'm totally full of it and I don't know how to handle it sometimes. I think I need ridalin. That is probably why I don't pay very good attention in class and such. I try really hard, Promise! But, oh well. That is why I am a C student, just your average, ordinary, hard-worker. I hate that, but I never seem to do better. I think I have figured a remedy to falling asleep though. CANDLES! Light some of those babys that smell real nice, like apples or pumpkin spice are my favorite. They seem to relax the room and put you in a state of comfort and relaxation. They help!! If you have a better solution, tell me!!

Red Skye Comics!

YESS!! You want more!!! Well, I'm going to be a Red Skye Comic model. I'm just newly introduced to it and I'm not sure how long it will be before it is announced what my name will be. They are currently drawing me up, so I'm excited to see what I will look like! So, are you a collector of comics? You don't want to miss out on this one of a kind comic featuring, Me! Short Cake, so if you want one let me know, I'm going to reserve copies for you to purchase. I also will autograph them for you :) Just post a comment on here letting me know if you are interested!!

I'm a Model, and it is extremely HARD!

I'm a model, and it is extremely hard to do. I am 5'1 and not tall enough to do runway, but still not tall enough to do great posing. So, what do I do? I stay positive that no matter what, I can do it!! Modeling is not about being tall, it is being a role model for your peers and showing them that no matter who you are, you are beautiful in your own way, and with your FLAWS! Such as scars, they tell a story about you, don't be afraid to show them off! Any kind of flaw is a story about your life and we should celebrate ourselves! I model because I like to show my personality and who I am to other people, its my way of being "taller than the crowd" haha, that is my perspective. I also do modeling, because for once I have done something and accomplished a task. I never finished my cheerleading, or my tumbling, or my dance classes, my parents were too busy so I am fulfilling a dream that I have so I can look back and say, "Yeah, I really did that :)." If you have a similar experience or feel the same, please let me know! I always respond to anyone that talks to me, so share your thoughts!